Speed dating may turn out to be a fad and they’ve just brought out a kind of speed dating where all you do is stare into each other’s eyes. Which is funny really because I think that’s just crazy and yet my biggest problem with normal speed dating is guys who don’t make eye contact when they try to chat me up! So the first of my first speed dating tips is to look at me! Anyway given that the more conventional form of speed dating where you can actually talk to me is pretty popular right now here are some speed dating tips for you guys, from the other side of the table.

If you’re a bit overweight then there’s nothing that you can do in the short term. Don’t whatever you do go and buy one of those diet plans that promise that you’ll lose weight in a trice without any effort. It won’t work and you’ll feel miserable.

Yes, you want her to get to know you. You’ll have plenty of opportunity to let her get to know you if you get to know her on those first few dates. You should certainly answer her questions and give input to the conversation, but make sure you ask her about what she likes and what she’s interested in. Don’t forget to get her opinion rather than just giving yours – and if you disagree on a particular subject, that’s fine. Debating an interesting topic in a relaxed manner will show you’re intelligent and that you respect her opinion. For Pete’s sake, don’t insist on changing her mind – respect her independence.

Here’s how to handle it. Even if we’re wearing silly badges just introduce yourself, look at me and talk to me without winking at the last girl please. If you tell me I look nice or you like what I’m wearing, or my hair, or my shoes it’s more natural and believable than a dumb proposal or a you’re beautiful. Of course it’s more likely to make me feel good too because it compliments my style or taste.

The concept originated from his coaching sessions with friends. “I’d gained confidence, and was always the guy talking to cute girls, so my buddies asked me to help them,” he says. And with business now booming, his tips for the loveless look set to make a real impact on the Sydney social scene.

She may be vulnerable or really sincerely looking for that special someone as well. So you are just looking for a simple date. There are some http://www.adatingcupid.com for men that will be shared. First, and foremost is to always be yourself. Women can pick insincerity fairly quickly.

You want to find an activity or an exercise that you both do that you can ask her advice about. This is a good way to start up a conversion and to find something to talk about right away. If there’s a certain machine that you both work on or if there are yoga classes at the gym that you both do, ask her about certain techniques that could improve your fitness. You never know what she has to say, plus it’s a great way to get her talking.

Stay confident and positive. Women love confidence, but they also enjoy being around someone who smiles, is happy, and has a sense of humor. Confidence without a little good nature to temper it will have women thinking you’re cocky.