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So the other night we finished up both looking forward to the train after class together – we both live away from city, like a 45 minute or so train ride, in towns that are about 15 minutes apart in the same direction out over the same train line. So we stood together together with the right conversation for the entire train ride, building more connection, speaing frankly about small talk things like food to some of our life goals and interests – until it absolutely was time on her behalf to have off and we said goodnight.

If it would be weirder to basically assume to ride the train together out pretty much every week (cuz same train line, which only comes by about every 20 minutes, so hard not to be on the exact same train most nights), or weirder to avoid riding the train together some nights (I don’t know, like rush out of class quickly without saying goodbye and go stand on the furthest away pickup platform) so I have a few questions on this situation: One, I know I shouldn’t come across too keen or stalkerish, and should vary my attention and talk to other people in the class (which I’ve been doing), but I’m wondering now at this point. My instinct tells me to roll with assuming we’ll ride together most nights cuz it’d be weird to attempt to avoid her (with no one else rides out from our class, many people reside in the city), but in order to make some sort of joke for wanting to talk to such a cool, interesting guy, makes the time pass a lot quicker… Just don’t take this as an invitation to start stalking me if we head out together all the time…” or something like that… (figure out what feels most natural and funny to say in the moment about it at the end of next class like “So I bet you want to ride out with me again huh?… It’s cool, nobody can blame you)

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